Who are THEY in a relationship?

Homosexuals are rampant in Philippines.As they say,everybody has the right of self expression and Philippines is not an exception.
Nowadays they are said to be playing an important role in the society due to their artistic skills..they add color to this world.Most of my gay friends are smart and being funny is one thing why i love being with them .Butbehind their laughter are their bleeding heart from men whom they've spent everything but failed to reciprocate .But it varies, some can handle situations pretty well that is, knowing their limitation when it comes to relationships and others find it too hard....and that makes their lives miserable..

"Why not find men who wants men"This is a quote from a local movie I've seen.Gays have lots in common but still differ with preferences.Some just wanna have fun,knowing that guys wants women,and their role could be just a comforter not even a decoration.These are the open-minded type.Some wants true relationships disregarding sacrifices.Common scenario is that paying for their boyfriends necessities,"sponsor" is the local term.According to a friend of mine whose crazy about his man,what would he do with his money when hes not happy,if money is a means for his guy to stick with him then why not?..and i said but your not rich ,you've been suffering already,not paying for your own bills,working hard, gains nothing but tears.He began saying that hes a gay, and I'm a woman that's why I don't understand that he's left with no choice to pursue his happiness..
My point is if you've learn to love somebody,love yourself first.You can be yourself without the need to suffer.Are pain and happiness necessarily should go along together?
But anyway most of my friends are gay,they have great sense of humor.
In Philippines,gays are the choice of some men who cant go to College.Philippines is in a bad economy status but people find ways to survive.The existence of gay who are willing to give fully aren't hard to find.They are gifted with talent to earn money and they give doors to guys who are doesn't have future..Now why you think the society ridicules their identity? Because they are out of morals?Are all straight people moralistic?
There are famous gay celebrities in Philippines and with their striking and unique qualities,they became an asset in the entertainment Industry.By these terms,they are very much respected.Being a gay is not an attribute to be judged,Still it has to be with the personality.
It's not their fault to be born with a woman's heart in a man's body.My gay friends are achievers and I'm proud of them!....

What's their weapon?

Its just a funny statement that they have something to offer a woman cant.Technically its true specially before.Men loves oral sex and its where gays are good at but nowadays,women became experts with it as well.I don't know who invented anal sex towards women maybe it was originated from gays?When a certain man figured out how satisfying it is than using woman's real weapon?I don't know..
Anyway lets go back to our main topic.
Having a gay partner is conceived to be unusual .But again it's based on people's judgments.Some are open minded not to give an awful perception when they see 2 men kissing or walking holding hands on the street.Who cares?But in Philippines,it is more thought to be an explicit behavior.Maybe because this country is religious?that's why such vulgar acts are unacceptable.
These picture is rare but it happens because its undeniable.But in most cases,when you found out that MR.X is a lover of MR.Y who is gay then that ends in a conclusion,that MR.Y became his lover to support his needs whatever that is.Traditionally,gays are providers for their lovers,sometimes their families as well..But whose to blame?if women could be dumb enough in terms of love,could you say that gays just don't have a choice??It's been said that its better to use you brain over your heart to be on the safe side,but safety doesn't necessarily means happiness..Gays are not self centered,they're willing to give what they can in the name of love,its by being deaf with the criticisms of others but believing in themselves and hoping that what you give is what you get.Why not?keep up your faith,nothing is impossible.But with failed gay-man relationships,they don't tend to easily get depressed,that in certain point,its expected to happen.There comes a big realization that if you believe in love,it will chase you at the end.Nowadays,gay-gay or gay-bisexual couples have amplified.It seems to be of usual phenomenon specially in big cities and its getting more acceptable..There are successful love stories around.About two men who fell in love for each other.
The bottom line is, if that's what it takes it to be then you got no choice but to follow the rules.And under those rules,its up to you if you set your own.

Gay Lingo...

The use of GAY Language has been spread out not just among gays but people with gay spirits.With the influence of gay in the society,women also tend to use this language upon mingling with their gay friends..
Me as a girl considers myself as spiritually gay with my knowledge in gay language and nature of gay world.Gays are apparently gay,happy and bubbly its a good quality which became their asset.And no matter how being criticized by people,they are strong and stand out with what they believe.They are optimistic and humorous.
Gays are fascinated with girl stuff, they like being with girls and in turn these girls become gays too..Makes the world happy.Gay Lingo plays an essential role in expressing one self without stepping one else's head.It doesn't necessarily backbites,could be like that sometimes but its more on complimenting somebody without letting him know.
When a hot guy is around,and you are overwhelm,you can just shout anything you wanna say without destructing him using gay language.It wouldn't make him feel embarrassed because he wouldn't understand as if nothings said specially if hes not focused on his surrounding.No need to to whisper or any other obvious gesture.
See its importance??It just add beauty to a unique world which is a distinction from the real one.You can move freely and express what you mean to without worrying that others might understand.